What’s Up…?

Not sure if you are out of shocker (my first post) but I am back with my second post…

I feel that “Both Birth and Death are accidents and everything in between is mere pain\pleasure”. Pain or Pleasure is defined by the Choice(s) that one makes.

I made Choices not many, but few. All those changed course of my life. I don’t analyse choices that I made because I made them, which is past and can’t be changed. But I gave\give thought to them before making one.

When I was a child, my parents made choices for me. If those choices were not made, I wouldn’t be in the position that I am today. Would I have been in better\worse position, if my parents made better\worse choices, I should say No for that and all I realized is “Destiny Awaits” (this is recent revelation that I had)

Ever since I was making choices for my life, I never had a luxury to think about them at leisure. I was always put into situations where I had to react fast. And all choices that I made had greater impact on my people than on me. How insane, I still call it my life! And my decisions, when others are impacted more than me?

Just Me...

Big question, where to start? I tried to answer this BIG question by making an attempt to answer even bigger and tougher question “Describing Myself”.

Life of every form on this planet is defined by 2 C’s, Chance and Choice. How can I get an exception? I am a software engineer not by Chance but by Choice. My score in entrance exam gave me Chance to make this Choice? Which one is first, Chance or Choice? I leave it to you guys to decide.

Why was it my Choice? IT industry has lot of money in it. Is money my priority? Well yes, in context of my current life. Will it be my priority 2 years from today? No, is the answer.

When it comes to relationships I weigh Choice over Chance. I Choose people with whom I should be in relation with, be it any kind of relation. Life has surprises all the time; I negotiate surprises that life throws at me with choices that I make or those that I made.

By now you must have concluded that I am not simple and I am very complicated. If you think that I am complicated, you are one of many who think so and if you think I am not complicated you are the second person to think so, I being the first person. What makes me think that I am not complicated? I define life with Chances and Choices. And how do I make Choices? Not using complex rules or rules defined by contexts.

As every individual views others from his\her view point, he\she have complains about me. I don’t claim that I am Mr Perfect, but people try to map my actions to rules, which define their lives. I live my life defined by my choices, which in turn are defined by one simple rule "Do good and Expect nothing in return."

Any more that I write about me, will for sure complicate things for you. By Choice I am breaking here.